I restore myself when I'm alone.

Is porn cheating?




We're pretty much living in a liberated time already but for me, I would have to say YES. You are using another woman's body (picture or video) for sexual pleasure, feelings or relief. That, my friend, is cheating.
It's not a physical cheating no, but it is cheating. You are lusting over another person, and looking in a way that you should only look at your spouse. You are having feeling towards these people in the video, and that is considered CHEATING by far. To me being faithful to one person doesn't mean you only touch one person. That's ridiculous! Basically, you are getting turned on and seeing another woman naked. You are jacking yourself thinking and viewing that other person. So yes it is cheating. How would you feel if she constantly watched porn of men with HUGE DICKS? Trust me she wouldn't be thinking about you! You might not be touching someone physically, but you are thinking of someone else other than the person you are with citing feelings of jealously, inadequacy and the like. It can also ruin relationship due to expectations that your significant other can't live up to.I think the problem with porn, is comparing, or expecting your mate to do what the actors do. That's unfair. If your lover has insecurities, and it's going to cause problems, and you care enough, id just stop watching, close your eyes, and think of a great time that you two had together. It does work.
Anyway, I don't think that it matters too much how you feel on this subject. To her it is cheating and you should respect that. Nothing will change her mind either. You may not agree with it but to her basically you have been cheating on her and I bet that she is deeply hurt. She will probably feel insecure too and constantly think you are watching it in private, or looking at other women bc she thinks she isn't enough for you anymore. Many will disagree on my post if people (most likely guys) will see this, but this is just me. That's how I feel. I consider it as cheating, not a fact. But I wish. :\